I am a BDSM, LGBTQ+ and non-monogamy friendly coach. I work with people who are involved in, or curious about, non-traditional relationships to be who they want to be and love life.

Maybe you want to talk with someone independently and confidentially that won’t judge you for your sexuality or gender. You have issues that may or may not be related to your sexuality or gender that you want to work through with someone who will empathise and you don’t have to hide parts of yourself from.

I am honoured to go on your journey with you and see you blossom.

Kink and BDSM

BDSM derives from B/D for bondage and discipline, D/S for dominance and submission and S/M for sado-masochism. Very often misunderstood and judged. I provide a safe, confidential space where you can explore your own self-expression, grow and effect transformational change in your life whether that is related to your kinks or not. I am sex positive, pretty much unshockable and familiar with different preferences and lifestyles such as impact play, pet play, D/s, DD/lg, fetishes, M/s, etc.


With all its different forms, from swinging and open relationships through to polyamory and polyfidelity, these relationships are often misunderstood as they are so outside of most people’s experience. I will support you in navigating challenges, finding what works for you, avoiding common problems and creating positive relationships.


You may be confused about your own gender or sexuality and feel bombarded by society’s expectations. Or you may be clear on what you want but need a safe, confidential space to explore your identity and self-expression.

Relationship Coaching

Whether you are seeking this for yourself, you and your partner, or partner(s), it is likely that you have tried lots of different ways already to resolve issues. I will work with you so you can communicate with each other effectively, understand yourself and your significant other(s) better and work towards more loving and giving relationships. Whether the issue is around growing apart, infidelity, jealousy or difficult life events, start your healing journey today.

My Background

I am a Relationship Coach, passionate about helping people like you live life on your own terms.

I have been on my own journey of exploration and know how overwhelming and confusing it can be, but also how exciting and liberating it can be too. I used to wonder if there was something wrong with me. Now I see how healthy relationships come in all shapes and sizes and I celebrate that diversity. I will help you figure out what works for you.

I hold an accredited Diploma in Transformational Coaching, an Accredited Certificate in Coaching with Trauma, an Accredited Certificate in Mindfulness for Coaching, a Psychology degree and am committed to continuing professional development.

I also work with recovering people-pleasers, if you want to learn more about that.

Is Coaching for you?

Whilst I hold a therapeutic space, coaching is different from therapy. I will create for you a safe and supportive environment so you can relieve your anxieties and find your truth. I will also challenge you and help you create positive lasting change in your life. It isn’t easy, but it’s worth it.

Let’s talk

I work with clients online and by phone so you can access my coaching from where you feel most comfortable.

In order for us to work together, we both need to know that we are the right ‘fit’ for each other. Book in for your free one-hour introductory session where you can experience my coaching first-hand and I can answer any questions you have. I will design a coaching package that suits your needs.

Book my free session now.

Or you can email me at helen@helensnape.com

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