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23 June 2022
Helen Snape
Healthy Boundaries at Work

Do you feel overworked and underpaid? Maybe you feel that your good nature is taken advantage of? Or you are fed up of always being the one who stays late. It may be that you have a problem with your boundaries at work.

Healthy Boundaries at Work
31 January 2021
Helen Snape
12 Signs you're a High Achieving People-Pleaser

Ever been told that you are ‘too nice’? Read on for what people-pleasing is, 12 signs you are a people-pleaser. And how to stop!

12 Signs you're a High Achieving People-Pleaser
4 January 2021
Helen Snape
A Recovering People-Pleaser's Guide to Reducing ...

What is anxiety? What can you do to ease it when it strikes? And what can you do to tackle the root causes? Here are some of the valuable insights of our community and a few ideas of my own too.

A Recovering People-Pleaser's Guide to Reducing Anxiety
13 August 2020
Helen Snape
What to talk about BEFORE you get married

What are some of the things that couples often don’t talk about before they get married, but it would be a great idea if they did?

And perhaps even more relevant given that just under half of marriages end in divorce, what are the most common reasons given for divorce that can inform what it would be helpful to discuss before you even get married?

What to talk about BEFORE you get married
13 July 2020
Helen Snape
The foundation of confidence: Trusting Yourself

A lack of trust in yourself can be easy to cover up and ignore for a while. But we can all think of people, maybe ourselves, who are great at what they do, but are riddled with doubts and self-criticism.

If we don’t trust ourselves, we don’t have that firm foundation to build on. When we have built that foundation, we can make a mistake or hear criticism and our confidence remains intact.

That foundation to confidence is trusting in ourselves. So how do we do that?

The foundation of confidence: Trusting Yourself
Helen Snape
12 January 2024

Mastering Boundaries: Navigating Others' Reactions with Confidence

Helen Snape
12 January 2024
Mastering Boundaries: Navigating Others' Reactions with Confidence

How to handle some common reactions to boundaries, like pushback, testing, defensiveness, rationalising/questioning and silent treatment.

Tagged: boundaries, communication, defenses

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Helen Snape
5 December 2023

The Responsibility for Happiness over Christmas

Helen Snape
5 December 2023
The Responsibility for Happiness over Christmas

How to navigate expectations, conflict and the impossible mission to keep everyone happy over Christmas

Tagged: family, christmas, people pleasing

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Helen Snape
26 October 2023

Overshare much?

Helen Snape
26 October 2023
Overshare much?

How do you know if you are over-sharing or just being open and vulnerable? Read on to find out PLUS how to stop oversharing.

Tagged: relationships, connection, boundaries, vulnerability, authenticity

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Helen Snape
24 May 2023

Embrace the Praise: The Power of Accepting Compliments

Helen Snape
24 May 2023
Embrace the Praise: The Power of Accepting Compliments

Do you find it hard to accept compliments? It can be easy to downplay them, but learning to accept compliments can go a long way to building self-confidence and better relationships.

Tagged: confidence, compliments, self esteem, trust

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Helen Snape
26 April 2023

Understanding and connecting with your emotions

Helen Snape
26 April 2023
Understanding and connecting with your emotions

In this article, we will explore the importance of understanding our emotions, how to identify and connect with them, and why it’s vital to meet our feelings.

Tagged: emotions, feelings, boundaries

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Helen Snape
23 June 2022

Healthy Boundaries at Work

Helen Snape
23 June 2022
Healthy Boundaries at Work

Do you feel overworked and underpaid? Maybe you feel that your good nature is taken advantage of? Or you are fed up of always being the one who stays late. It may be that you have a problem with your boundaries at work.

Tagged: boundaries, burnout, stress at work

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Helen Snape
17 June 2021

Self Compassion and Wet Hair

Helen Snape
17 June 2021
Self Compassion and Wet Hair

Confessions of a recovering people-pleaser continue. The one about the wet hair.

Tagged: compassion, relationships, people pleasing

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Helen Snape
13 May 2021

Can we hug now?

Helen Snape
13 May 2021
Can we hug now?

Who, when and how to hug?

What are the relational dynamics at play and how can we navigate these new social situations?

Tagged: boundaries, communication, consent, relationships

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Helen Snape
19 February 2021

How people-pleasing ruins your life (and how to stop it)

Helen Snape
19 February 2021
How people-pleasing ruins your life (and how to stop it)

How people-pleasing shows up in your work, family life, health, financial situation and more. In fact, every area of your life. And what you can do about it.

Tagged: relationships, people pleasing, boundaries

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Helen Snape
31 January 2021

12 Signs you're a High Achieving People-Pleaser

Helen Snape
31 January 2021
12 Signs you're a High Achieving People-Pleaser

Ever been told that you are ‘too nice’? Read on for what people-pleasing is, 12 signs you are a people-pleaser. And how to stop!

Tagged: people pleasing, relationships

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  • January 2024
    • Jan 12, 2024 Mastering Boundaries: Navigating Others' Reactions with Confidence Jan 12, 2024
  • December 2023
    • Dec 5, 2023 The Responsibility for Happiness over Christmas Dec 5, 2023
  • October 2023
    • Oct 26, 2023 Overshare much? Oct 26, 2023
  • May 2023
    • May 24, 2023 Embrace the Praise: The Power of Accepting Compliments May 24, 2023
  • April 2023
    • Apr 26, 2023 Understanding and connecting with your emotions Apr 26, 2023
  • June 2022
    • Jun 23, 2022 Healthy Boundaries at Work Jun 23, 2022
  • June 2021
    • Jun 17, 2021 Self Compassion and Wet Hair Jun 17, 2021
  • May 2021
    • May 13, 2021 Can we hug now? May 13, 2021
  • February 2021
    • Feb 19, 2021 How people-pleasing ruins your life (and how to stop it) Feb 19, 2021
  • January 2021
    • Jan 31, 2021 12 Signs you're a High Achieving People-Pleaser Jan 31, 2021
    • Jan 4, 2021 A Recovering People-Pleaser's Guide to Reducing Anxiety Jan 4, 2021
  • November 2020
    • Nov 6, 2020 Is my relationship caring or codependent? Nov 6, 2020
  • August 2020
    • Aug 13, 2020 What to talk about BEFORE you get married Aug 13, 2020
  • July 2020
    • Jul 13, 2020 The foundation of confidence: Trusting Yourself Jul 13, 2020
  • June 2020
    • Jun 15, 2020 How being ‘too nice’ stopped your promotion Jun 15, 2020
  • April 2020
    • Apr 17, 2020 Eight Ways to Build Connection in Relationships Apr 17, 2020
  • February 2020
    • Feb 24, 2020 Is this relationship good for me? Feb 24, 2020
    • Feb 5, 2020 Why getting Needy is a GOOD Thing Feb 5, 2020
  • November 2019
    • Nov 28, 2019 A Givers Guide To Stress Reduction Nov 28, 2019
  • October 2019
    • Oct 3, 2019 Do you avoid conflict at all costs? Oct 3, 2019
  • August 2019
    • Aug 27, 2019 Overcoming Fear of Rejection Aug 27, 2019
    • Aug 13, 2019 Help your relationship blossom - by putting YOU first Aug 13, 2019
  • July 2019
    • Jul 31, 2019 That Little Voice of Truth Jul 31, 2019
    • Jul 3, 2019 How to Create Healthy Boundaries Jul 3, 2019
  • June 2019
    • Jun 20, 2019 How Putting Yourself First Helps You Attract Your Ideal Mate Jun 20, 2019
  • April 2019
    • Apr 23, 2019 The Benefits of Meditation for a Recovering People-Pleaser Apr 23, 2019
    • Apr 15, 2019 A Recovering People-Pleaser's Guide to Good Sex Apr 15, 2019
    • Apr 4, 2019 Your abilities, people-pleasing and the true You Apr 4, 2019
  • March 2019
    • Mar 20, 2019 From bud to blossom: Creating the Life you Love Mar 20, 2019
    • Mar 17, 2019 Your partner is a people-pleaser. So now what? Mar 17, 2019
    • Mar 13, 2019 5 Signs your partner may be a people-pleaser Mar 13, 2019
    • Mar 10, 2019 It is OK to make mistakes. Really. Mar 10, 2019
    • Mar 7, 2019 Live life with no regrets Mar 7, 2019
  • January 2019
    • Jan 21, 2019 Feelings and their creative outlets Jan 21, 2019
    • Jan 18, 2019 You deserve hot chips Jan 18, 2019
    • Jan 8, 2019 The Invisible Woman Jan 8, 2019
  • December 2018
    • Dec 27, 2018 The Turtle Way Dec 27, 2018
    • Dec 17, 2018 But do I _need_ those apples? Dec 17, 2018
  • November 2018
    • Nov 8, 2018 Loss, darkness and light Nov 8, 2018
  • October 2018
    • Oct 23, 2018 Gender, Identity and Coaching Workshop with Yael Nevo - a review Oct 23, 2018
  • September 2018
    • Sep 27, 2018 Learning to quieten the inner critic Sep 27, 2018
    • Sep 18, 2018 The battle to be you Sep 18, 2018
  • August 2018
    • Aug 20, 2018 Living life until the end Aug 20, 2018
    • Aug 18, 2018 Love and Hate Aug 18, 2018
  • July 2018
    • Jul 9, 2018 The Energy of the Company we keep Jul 9, 2018
    • Jul 4, 2018 Love and Freedom Jul 4, 2018

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